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The Hidden Cost of Retirement for LGBTQ+ Folks

Daniella Flores
8 minute read

Retirement feels like a dream for many, but for LGBTQ+ folks? It's a dream with extra speed bumps.

Mainstream financial advice can have the tendency to focus on a cisgender and heteronormative, married audience. But a one-size-fits-all approach to retirement doesn’t really exist. We all have different lives, experiences, needs, and future plans.

Saving for retirement is generally the same for many, but there are personal and financial factors that affect LGBTQ+ individuals and families a little differently, such as job security, different family structures, possible higher healthcare costs, legal concerns, estate planning, and many others.

Don’t worry. This article won’t be all “doom and gloom“ about the future of your financial situation. Instead, I want to raise your awareness about what to expect as you plan and save for your later years, and show you how to overcome them so you can thrive to the fullest in your retired life. 

So, how exactly does retirement look different for LGBTQ+ folks?

Wage Gaps, Job Insecurity, and Discrimination Add Up

In order to save money, you need to make money. Saving for retirement can be pretty difficult without a stable income to do so – something that is difficult to obtain for many queer and trans people facing discrimination in the workplace. 

Even with the federal workplace protections put in place by the Supreme Court in 2020, queer and trans folks still face discrimination and often lose access to jobs because of their sexual orientation or gender identity. For instance, 46% of LGBTQ+ employees say they’ve experienced unfair treatment at their jobs, and 34% have left a job due to mistreatment by their employer, according to a recent study by the Center for American Progress

Additionally, the Human Rights Campaign (HRC) Foundation reported that LGBTQ+ workers earn 90 cents for every dollar a non-LGBTQ+ worker earns. This wage gap is even wider for LGBTQ+ people of color, transgender women and men, and nonbinary individuals.

These circumstances can easily create a slow domino effect over the course of someone’s life, leading to lower lifetime earnings and less savings.

How to get ahead: Tap into resources for LGBTQ+ folks to find supportive work environments, discover job openings, and address workplace challenges.

Resources to consider:

Possible Higher Healthcare Costs Need To Be Considered

Healthcare can be a source of anxiety for a lot of LGBTQ+ people, especially as we get older. It’s no surprise that many are faced with general health insurance discrimination. 

Transgender and nonbinary folks have a unique set of financial challenges when funding the costs of gender-affirming care and getting insurance to cover it. The Center for American Progress found that 30% of transgender and nonbinary individuals experienced at least one form of denial by a health insurance company. 

Specifically, 28% were denied coverage for gender-affirming hormone therapy, and 22% were denied coverage for gender-affirming surgery (which can run as high as $50,000 without insurance). These rates were even higher among transgender or nonbinary people of color.

While this raises the costs of living for LGBTQ+ folks in the years they are saving for retirement and may cause them to save less, this type of discrimination may continue to follow them throughout their life. Trans folks may need ongoing access to gender-affirming care, which isn’t always covered by Medicare or even private insurance. 

How to get ahead: Budget not just for standard medical expenses, but also extra out-of-pocket costs for affirming care, and maybe even travel to access LGBTQ+-friendly providers.

Resources to consider:

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Queer Families May Look a Little Different

While not all queer and trans people grow up in the same living situation, they are more likely to experience family estrangement than cisgender heterosexual people that never had to come out as “different” to their family. As a result, they may grow up with a lack of financial support, little generational wealth, and turn to a chosen family structure. 

Up until marriage equality was granted in 2015, spouses were also left out of survivor benefits. While marriage equality and expanded legal protections have helped, they haven’t erased decades of exclusion from employer-sponsored benefits like spousal pensions or survivor rights. 

For instance, if you have a partner but never got married, or missed the chance to after marriage equality was granted due to a death, you would have no claim to their Social Security benefits. That’s an entire second income stream you wouldn’t inherit.

This is one of the reasons things like estate planning, healthcare proxies, and long-term care planning have become even more important for non-traditional family structures. You want to make sure your partner, friends, or chosen family members can advocate for you, inherit your stuff, and help care for you if something happens.

Queer families also need to account for extra family-planning expenses that may affect how they save and plan for retirement, such as adoption, in vitro fertilization (IVF), and surrogacy, as well as any legal costs that come with those.

How to get ahead: Create a clear estate plan, including wills and healthcare directives, to ensure your partner and chosen family are legally recognized and protected, especially in states where LGBTQ+ rights may be limited.

Resources to consider:

  • Trust & Will for estate planning services tailored for LGBTQ+ individuals
  • Family Equality for information on LGBTQ+ family building grants to assist with adoption and fertility treatment costs. 

Where You Retire Matters

Isolation in old age is a real risk, financially and emotionally. For queer folks, retirement isn’t just about finding a place with sunshine and low property taxes. It’s about safety. It’s about community. It’s about being somewhere that sees you, protects you, and respects your life.

That’s not the case everywhere. Community is a valuable retirement resource, but may be harder to find for LGBTQ+ folks. Some states have stronger LGBTQ+ protections, more inclusive healthcare systems, and vibrant queer communities than others. 

How to get ahead: Before settling down, ask yourself a few questions.

  • Will I feel safe being out here?
  • Is there an LGBTQ+ community nearby?
  • Will I have access to inclusive healthcare, social spaces, and support networks?

Resources to consider:

Start Where You Are. Here’s How:

You don’t have to figure out everything at once. But you do deserve a retirement plan that reflects your life. Here are a few places to begin:

  • Find an LGBTQ+-friendly financial planner and online financial resources that give actionable and non-intimidating advice. A few I love include @Queerandtranswealth, @financewithriver, and @queermoneypodcast on Instagram.
  • Use a tool like PensionBee’s Retirement Calculator to forecast how much you need to save each month to hit your retirement goals. 
  • Check in on your Social Security account to help forecast how much you’ll have when you retire.
  • Explore tax-advantaged accounts such as 401(k)s, Roth IRAs, and HSAs, take advantage of 401(k)-matches from your employer, and max out accounts yearly if you can. If you have old 401(k)s or IRAs, PensionBee offers an app that lets you consolidate them into one account, including the option to roll into a Roth IRA. This can help simplify account management and provide a clearer view of your retirement savings.
  • Create or update your will, health care proxy, and power of attorney.
  • Look into long-term care insurance, especially if you’ll be aging solo.
  • Plan for the location where you’ll retire, including how your budget will change in that new location.
  • Talk to your family about how you can support each other in the years ahead.
  • Consolidate accounts from past jobs to simplify management, potentially reduce fees, and get a clearer view of your retirement progress. PensionBee offers an award-winning app to help make it easy to get control of your future finances. 

Retirement for LGBTQ+ folks may come with more hurdles, but it also comes with more creativity, resilience, and community.

Whether you’re dreaming of a queer artist commune, a cozy condo near your best friends, or just a life where you can finally rest without hiding any part of yourself – it’s worth planning for, and PensionBee can help.

Your investment can go down as well as up. This post, and any associated customer testimonial or third party endorsement, is provided solely for informational and educational purposes, should not be taken as tax, legal, financial or investment advice and is not an offer, solicitation, or recommendation to buy or sell any securities or investments.

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